Take the reigns...

"I don't have time to be classified as difficult, and I don't have time to care"

-Kim Basinger

Did Kim have it right or did she have it right? I think somewhere along the road of all relationships we lose this quality because we become comfortable with being "known" as comfortable. Limits become crossed and crossing comes with no ultimatums, thus leading to the downfall of that relationship.

"In order to be looked at differently, you have to think differently"

"You call your own shots, and you don't need input from anyone about how to put your socks on"

- Sherry Argov

I think that too often we forget about what WE really want, about what WE really deserve. Why is it that we stumble across something that hits home so close, and something that opens our eyes so wide we just cant believe it, that we vow to live by these words, yet completely forget every one in a mere two weeks.  What will it take for us to make it a habit? Is it constant failure? My Aunt once quoted my late Grandmother to me " Insanity is the definition of doing something over and over again, and expecting the same result"

But my question is, exactly  how long of 'over and over' does it take to cause insanity?

Veronica